She’s With Him is a folk/Americana acoustic duo based in Southern New England. Bonnie Lou & RM blend expressive harmonies with heartfelt originals, crafting performances filled with joy, connection, and an infectious energy that draws audiences in to sing, smile, and share the moment.  

Come find out why She's With Him!

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Nov. 21 - Southington Community Cultural Arts, Southington, CT - 7:00p

Dec. 21 - Red Clover Farm Winter Market, Seymour, CT - 11:00a

Jan. 9 - The Buttonwood Tree, Middletown, CT - 7:00p

March 14 - Downtown Coffee Shop, Meriden, CT

April 19 - Music in the Meetinghouse @ First Congregational Church, Southington, CT

July 20 - Private Campground Event

Where to Catch Us Next


We’d love to play for you!

She’s With Him brings heartfelt music to every kind of stage — from house concerts and listening rooms to churches, coffeehouses, wineries, breweries, libraries, campgrounds, private events, benefits, and beyond.

Got a venue? We’ve got the tunes. Let’s make it happen!

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Past Venues


Black Bear Music Festival - Goshen, CT
Small Batch Cellars - North Haven, CT
Sing Out Against Hunger - Tiverton, RI
Great South Bay Brewery - Bay Shore, NY
Maple Tree Cafe - Simsbury, CT
Lasalle Market - Collinsville, CT
Southington Community Cultural Arts
West End Porchfest - Hartford, CT
Milford Porchfest - Milford, CT
The Carousel Museum - Bristol, CT
The Buttonwood Tree - Middletown, CT
Hilltop Farm - Suffield, CT
Red Clover Farms - Seymour, CT
122 Elm Street Tavern - Cheshire, CT
Gaetano's Tavern on Main - Wallingford, CT
Moose's Burgers, Meriden, CT
LiveWell - Southington, CT
Indian Field Campground - Salem, CT
Copper Hill Golf Club - East Granby, CT
Local Farmers Markets
Cheshire United Methodist Church - Cheshire, CT
Mercy By the Sea - Madison, CT

The Who's Who of She's With Him

Performing together for almost 20 years, RM & Bonnie Lou met on stage in local theater cast as a husband and wife.  And while they are just friends (really....everyone asks...lol) their spouses say they've been in a committed musical relationship since 2019.

She’s With Him weave their original music with creative twists on beloved favorites from the past to the present. Their true talent lies in forging a deep connection with audiences, leaving listeners smiling, laughing, and singing along.

​Together this combination beautifully defines why
​She's with Him.

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